Following vs connecting

Last updated on Jul 23, 2026

Status: Available The difference between following someone and connecting with them, and what each one lets you see.

Your community gives you two ways to keep up with other members: following and connecting. They sound similar, but they work differently. Here's the short version.

Following is one-way and instant

Following someone is like following an account. It's one-way, and it happens right away with no approval needed. You follow them, and that's it: their activity starts showing up for you. The other person doesn't have to agree, and they don't have to follow you back.

You can unfollow at any time, just as instantly.

Connecting is mutual and needs to be accepted

A connection is a two-way relationship, and the other person has to accept it.

  1. You send them a connection request. (Sending a request also starts you following them right away.)
  2. They get a notification about it.
  3. When they accept, the two of you become connections.

Until they accept, you're not connected yet. If they don't accept, nothing changes.

A quick comparison

Following Connecting
Direction One-way Mutual (both sides)
Approval needed No, it's instant Yes, the other person accepts
Like... Following an account Becoming connected friends

What you can see

Here's the part that trips people up: you can view another member's connections and followers only if you're connected to them. If you only follow someone, or have no relationship with them, those lists stay private to you. Becoming connected is what opens them up.

Related